On: Decisions

Hiking path in Hawaii

Making Decisions

In order to really talk about how to know when and how we are making a mistake, we would have to talk about pre-destiny, the grand design and the role of the Divine.

This story is about the simple, yet difficult, choices that each of us face every day, and the process we go through to decide which path we want to take in any given moment.

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I am often asked –

“Which way should I go?”

“Which job should I take?”

“What is the right thing to do?”

“Did I do the wrong thing?”

Indecision is a block for many people.

In spirituality, there is no right decision or wrong decision.
One decision will take you down one path, and one down another.

Truthfully, our choices each day are infinite!

Each decision has varying degrees of how much it will impact your life. Like, “Should I drink water or tea?”, or, “Should I tell my boss I am angry or not?” Each decision will offer a set of experiences. Some we call ‘good’ and some we call ‘bad’. But they are experiences none the less. If you wait at the crossroads until you know which road is the Right road, you may never leave where you are. Stop waiting for a ‘sign’ of rightness to live your life! Get moving! Experience will tell you the rest!

- Sivan Garr

Every single thing you do and say is a choice.

When I connect with someone who is on the path of awakening I will often hear them say – “I could not help it!” “I could not stop myself!” “I don’t have any control over this thing, or that thing.”

This could be an addiction, or a type of behavior, or an angry reaction, etc. However, if you were to put your thoughts into very sloooowww motion, you would see that an actual thought and subsequent agreement, led you to doing whatever it is that you did or that you do.

Practicing the various forms of The Observer is the key to unraveling the intricate design of your mental process. And when you do, you begin to have the freedom to essentially ‘rewire’ it from the inside out making your choices absolutely conscious!


- Sivan Garr

I think because I have a mind, but decisions are born from my heart.

- Sivan Garr