“Why is this happening to me again?”
“What am I not getting?”
Lots of folks tell me that they have repeating cycles in their lives. Either repeating uncomfortable situations, the return of past relationship problems, or just something downright in their face like getting fired from a job (again) without understanding why.
The repetition of uncomfortable situations does not always happen because you did not learn your lesson; sometimes it happens because this particular situation has been a motivating factor for you to move forward in life, and evolve.
We are predisposed to comfort, and in that comfort we find it too easy to just chill. But at the same time, if our soul is eager to be born and we are chillin’, then most likely, or hopefully, life will generously bring us a very uncomfortable situation; a situation that demands we sit up and take notice – we cannot ignore it.
At this point, being in that discomfort, we are motivated to seek change in order to find answers and healing.
Many times we get stuck in ideas of what we think is happening. I say – challenge yourself to find a myriad of reasons why something in your life is grabbing your attention!
When you do this, you begin a practice of allowing your mind to be more flexible. And within that flexibility lies the provision for a dynamic spaciousness that enables access to entirely new tools for growth.
I will write more about the flexible mind in the coming days! It is such an important piece of our paths!
I love you all dearly!